Drew Sidora has revealed her priorities amid the recent changes in her divorce proceedings.
The “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star recently hopped on the divorce train after several attempts to make her union with Ralph Pittman work since their 2014 wedding. Viewers of the reality TV show have often seen their relationship in cracks with claims of infidelity, frequent abuse, and disrespect.
In light of the divorce, Drew Sidora has been ordered to vacate their Georgia mansion and split legal custody of their two kids with her estranged partner. The TV star also welcomed a son, Josiah, from her previous relationship.
Drew Sidora Says They Are Doing ‘What’s Best For Our Children’
Sidora has released a statement addressing where things stand for her family as the divorce is in the works. The mom of three explained in a social media post that her focus, as well as that of her ex, is on co-parenting and doing what is best for the kids they share. The decision to put their differences on the back burner comes with the utmost priority for the kids, Machai and Aniya.
The reality TV star emphasized further in her statement that, despite the challenges that come with living in the public eye, particularly the loss of privacy, she has placed her focus on motherhood. Having her name in headlines comes with a strain that she admits is beyond her control, hence showing up every day as the “best mother” ranks top on her list.
Moving forward, Sidora shared in her statement on X that she is committed to leading with peace, love, and positivity as she embraces this new chapter of life. The “RHOA” star stressed that she holds no ill feelings towards anyone; instead, she maintains “a continued focus on healing, evolving, and becoming the best version of [herself].”
Fans Had Mixed Reactions To The ‘RHOA’ Star’s Statement
Sidora’s statement has gotten traction from fans who wasted no time in spilling their minds. Several users sent positive messages and words of encouragement to the reality TV star, stressing that going through such a great life change can never be easy. “Sending prayers and positive vibes to you and your family,” one user wrote.
Others took to the comments to reassure Sidora that, as faithful fans, they are unfazed by the widely spread narrative about her parenting. Some netizens penned that the TV star did not need to offer explanations to the public, adding that she deserves her privacy during the process amid sending prayers. “Drew, have your personal time. We don’t need an explanation. Remain healthy and stay strong,” one wrote. “All the best, sis, and please don’t put out any statements. Prayers to you [praying hands emoji],” another added.
On the other hand, a number of internet users called the media personality out on the claims that she does not ensure her kids go to school when they are with her. “If the kids were your top priority, making sure they get to school is the most important thing,” a comment read. The comment was shut down by another user who penned, “If both parents were in the house, one, why are they blaming 1 for the kids for missing school?...”
Why Did Drew Sidora Choose To End Her Marriage
The happenings in Sidora and Pittman’s relationship appeared regularly on the hit TV show, providing fans with a glimpse of their love life. The mom of three previously explained that she felt her cup was full after she discovered her estranged partner to be a serial cheater. The Blast detailed that Sidora alleged in 2023, when she filed for divorce, that Pittman was always cheating on her.
She revealed that to buttress her claims, she had seen sexy texts from women that he had been cheating with. On an episode of the “Real Housewives of Atlanta,” the reality star divulged that she had seen a text from one of her estranged husband’s assistants offering to give him a massage, and this raised the doubts she had about her former partner and his respect for the sanctity of their union.
Sidora also revealed that, besides the cases of infidelity, there was financial and physical abuse. She cited that during an argument, her former lover snatched her phone from her hand, causing her to lose balance and fall. According to the television star, Pittman had also withdrawn large sums of money from her personal account. Overall, instead of love, bitterness, toxicity, and malice ruled their home, and she could not continue.
The Bravo Star ‘Felt Blindsided’ By Pittman
In 2022, Sidora joined her fellow TV stars on a group fun trip to Jamaica, which later took an unexpected turn. The trip was hosted by Sanya Richards-Ross, who wanted to share a part of her life as a Jamaican native with the other reality TV stars. While the group visited the National Stadium, Sidora and her castmate, Marlo Hampton, decided to have a friendly race, after which the mom of three fell and was left with an Achilles injury.
Pittman, who was present at the stadium, came to her aid upon the fall to assess the injury after taking off her shoe and sock. The Blast shared that after the reality star’s visit to a doctor, it was established that she had indeed torn her Achilles tendon, leaving her on crutches and unable to use her legs. During the trip, Pittman announced to the group, including his then-wife, that he would no longer be adopting Josiah.
Sidora explained later that hearing that for the first time in Jamaica after Pittman had told her otherwise made her feel “blindsided” by his decision. “We were in Jamaica. I’m hearing this literally for the first time. He made an announcement previously to me and my mom that he was going to adopt Josiah, and it was this whole moment that we were, like, literally in tears,” she expressed on the show.
Drew Sidora Ignited An Online Feud With A Co-Star
Sidora made headlines after she posted a video on her Instagram stories, taking a jab at Kelli Ferrell and her closed business venture. It had been documented that Ferrell’s restaurant, Nana’s Chicken N’ Waffles, had suffered a setback, which led to the shutdown of an outlet; however, Sidora went ahead to visit the location, claiming that she wanted to patronize her castmate.
In the video, she said that her kids wanted some chicken and waffles, so she came to support Ferrell’s business while meeting their request. Upon arriving at the eatery, the door was locked, and no one was answering the phone as the business had ceased operations in that branch. Sidora claimed that she did not know about the closing, stating that she “did not get the memo”. Speaking further, she said, “We’re just at the grand opening a few months ago,” then added, “I guess I gotta go to Waffle House.”
The Blast reported that Ferrell clapped back on Instagram as well, stating that Sidora was just looking for a reason to bring her name back into the spotlight. The business owner added that her co-star was involved in “low-budget movies, unpaid promo tours and imaginary business ventures” before taking a nudge at Sidora’s failed relationship. “Keep my name out of that dry mouth of yours. (Maybe you can get a man that actually claims you.),” Ferrell warned.
Will Drew Sidora keep the public abreast with her personal life going forward?