However, even after she learned that Kevin was stepping out with Britney, she tried to salvage the relationship. “We didn’t break up; we agreed to figure it out. Then he told me he had booked a commercial and needed to go and shoot it overseas,” she recalled, noting that she later saw photos of him and Britney together on a beach pop up in tabloids.
She said she called him up and recalled telling him, “I need to know if you are going to be in the kids’ lives or not, because it’s not a part-time gig. If you don’t want that responsibility, tell me now so we can cut ties completely.” Shar went on to say, “I didn’t care about Britney at that point. It wasn’t about her. I felt betrayed and crushed. I thought: ‘How could you do something like that?’”
Kevin stayed with Britney and the two became engaged in July 2004, only days after Shar gave birth to Kaleb. In September, K-Fed and Britney got married and welcomed two sons of their own: Sean Preston, now 18, and Jayden James, now 17. However, they separated in 2006 and finalized their divorce the following year.

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Even though Kevin now lives in Hawaii with his wife Victoria, Shar insists that she and Kevin are still close friends. She also insists that she holds no ill will toward Britney Spears.
“I think her relationship with Kevin was a fantasy for both of them. To me, anything built on a rocky foundation isn’t going to last and they started rocky because he was in a relationship. I never hated Kevin because if you really love someone you can’t hate them,” she said.
As for her own relationship with Kevin, in her memoir, Britney wrote, “When I married Kevin, I meant it with all my heart.” However, she said that he became “enthralled by the fame and power,” which led to the end of their relationship. “Again and again in my life, I’ve seen fame and money ruin people,” she wrote. “And I saw it happen with Kevin in slow motion.”
Britney Spears’ tell-all memoir, “The Woman In Me,” was officially released on Tuesday, October 24, 2023.