Ray J's Wife Breaks Silence After Alleged Gun Pulling Incident And Arrest

By Afouda Bamidele on November 28, 2025 at 8:45 AM EST

Ray J and Princess Love posing together on the red carpet during the BET Awards.
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Princess Love is sharing her side of the story after her estranged husband, Ray J, allegedly threatened her with a gun.

The former couple took fans on a wild ride early Thursday morning when chaos erupted during a livestream. Their volatile altercation involved a third party, who has since been identified as Princess Love's cousin's husband.

Princess Love and Ray J tied the knot in 2016 and welcomed two children together: daughter Melody Love, born in May 2018, and son Epik Ray, born in January 2020. Their relationship has been tumultuous to say the least, involving four divorce filings and numerous explosive arguments.

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Ray J's Estranged Wife Has Had 'Enough' Of Their Chaotic Relationship

Princess Love at BET Awards 2023
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Princess Love broke her silence about her acrimonious relationship with Ray J hours after their shocking altercation during a livestream in the singer's home. In the video, captioned "Enough is enough," the TV personality lamented her poor co-parenting relationship with Ray J.

The "Love & Hip Hop: Miami" star stressed that she was tired of the chaotic nature of her ties to her ex, stressing that she wished to protect her peace and her children. Princess Love implied that she might push for sole custody of her kids to ensure their safety.

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According to TMZ, Princess declared she would protect her children from danger, including "leaving them with a man who's waving a gun around," referencing Ray J's livestream incident. She also accused her estranged husband of "terrorizing" and "abusing" women.

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The 'Sexy Can I' Singer Accused Of Creating An Unsafe Environment For Children

Ray J at the BET Awards 2023
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Regarding the livestream incident, Princess Love explained that she had tried to take her kids away from Ray J's home when he pulled a gun on her and her cousin's husband. She stressed that they had come in peace before the singer suddenly blew a fuse.

Princess Love noted that she wanted Ray J to spend Thanksgiving with their children; however, she did not want to leave them alone with him. She tried to stay with their kids because the last time they were alone with their father, they allegedly found him naked in bed with another woman.

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The concerned mother advised Ray J to seek professional help, saying, "You're more than drunk." On the other hand, her estranged husband defended his actions in a since-deleted post, explaining that he had a problem with Princess Love's cousin's husband entering his home without permission and trying to take his children.

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The Entertainer Argued That He Needed To Protect His Space

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Ray J stressed that he wasn't trying to cause any harm, but having a man he disliked barge into his home in an attempt to take his children triggered his protective instincts. He felt like he needed to protect his home and pulled out the gun to diffuse the situation.

The singer confessed that he expected authorities to understand his side of the story and was shocked that he ended up getting arrested for protecting his home from an unwanted intruder. He added that he would never endanger his kids, raving about his love for them.

The outlet covered Ray J's arrest, reporting that he was taken into custody for making a criminal threat and placed on a $50,000 bond. He regained his freedom on Thursday afternoon, hours after the incident, and was photographed leaving the Los Angeles-area jail with his entourage.

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Inside The Explosive Livestream That Sparked The Media Personality's Arrest

Ray J seen at a Labor Day weekend party singing new hit "Bestie" and slow dancing to what would be his 20th anniversary of his hit song "One Wish"
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The cops were called to Ray J's home around 4 a.m. on November 27 following reports of a domestic violence incident involving death threats. The Blast shared that the call stemmed from what transpired during the singer's livestream.

Ray J could be heard yelling at someone to get out of his home, grabbing a handgun from the table, and loading it. He accused the person of trespassing and warned them to leave or suffer bodily harm, saying: "Get out of my house before I shoot you right now. I got a gun on me."

Princess Love also appeared on camera, accusing Ray J of threatening her with the gun. On the other hand, the singer kept accusing the third party of trespassing, trying to take his children, and threatening him. The unfortunate incident marked one of many in the former couple's tumultuous relationship.

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Ray J Was Detained Following A Heated Argument With His Estranged Wife

Ray J Files For Divorce From Princess Love While Hospitalized For Pneumonia
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Earlier this year, Ray J had a brief run-in with authorities following an explosive argument with his estranged wife. The Blast reported that the incident occurred on March 13, with sources claiming the former couple had clashed over their divorce.

Ray J, who was suspected of being under the influence, began yelling and getting aggressive. His alleged actions led to authorities visiting his home to diffuse the situation, but they deemed it necessary to detain him.

Sources explained that Ray J was handcuffed and placed in the police cruiser until authorities figured out what had transpired between the former couple. After their investigation, officers concluded that the singer had committed no crimes and let him go.

Will Ray J's recent arrest influence his divorce from Princess Love?

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