Paul Wesley & Wife Ines de Ramon Are Getting Divorced

Paul Wesley and his wife Ines de Ramon are calling it quits.

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The two actors are notoriously private and kept their wedding secret for over a year.

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They were first spotted holding hands after a dinner date in June 2018.

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In February 2019, it looked like they were wearing matching wedding rings.

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His former “TVD” costar Nina Dobrev called her Paul’s “wife” in a podcast in June 2019.

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They confirmed that they were married in an Instagram post the following year.

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However, a rep for both parties told PEOPLE they’ve been separated for five months.

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“The decision to separate is mutual and occurred 5 months ago,” the statement said.

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It continued, “They request privacy at this time.”

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