Mary J. Blige Reveals Morning Ritual That Helps Improve Her Self-Esteem

Grammy Award winning musician and actress Mary J, Blige once struggled with her self-esteem at some point in her career.

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To build her self-esteem, Blige began to say encouraging things to herself in the mirror every morning.

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She would say “Good Morning, gorgeous” to herself, and this inspired the name for her 2022 album.

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She noted that she would have been more successful than she is if she believed in herself enough.

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The Emmy award winner and two-time Oscar nominee also praised herself for how much work she’d put into being successful.

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On how she is managing her music and acting career, she noted to People magazine, “I”ve been doing this for a minute, I’m no rookie.”

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Blige now wants all the gifts and accolades for her effort after learning to love herself.

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She noted how hard it was to pull away from substance abuse and also recalled going through a serious heartbreak.

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The Queen of Hip-hop and Soul plans to focus more on herself and remain happy.

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