James Van Der Beek Reflects On Family's Pregnancy Losses

James Van Der Beek is reflected on his family's multiple pregnancy losses and healing journey.

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The couple was heartbroken in 2019 when they lost a child during pregnancy.

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They were assailed with more agony after losing another child during pregnancy in June 2020.

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The actor took to his Instagram on Friday to share a heartfelt post where he reminisced on the healing road trip his family took.

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He posted two photos with the family at a stream from two different periods.

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He said he was surprised by "how much I didn’t know about the path to where I am now."

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He concluded the post by addressing his fans and urging them not to give up.

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The couple are very open about discussing heavy topics with their little kids.

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In 2020, the star posted a video he had recorded telling his children of their mom's miscarriage

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