Helen Mirren Talks Marriage & Relationship Advice

Dame Helen Mirren and director Taylor Hackford will be married 25 years this December.

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They were together for about a decade even before they got married!

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Mirren talked about their marriage for PEOPLE’s 2022 Beautiful Issue.

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The publication asked Mirren how her husband makes her feel beautiful.

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“Oh, he doesn’t,” Mirren said. “I don’t think he ever makes me feel beautiful.”

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“It’s not necessary,” she added. “That’s not what I love him for, honestly.”

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She advised anyone in a relationship to take it seriously, adding that, “It’s work.”

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“A really important part of love is to maintain your own sense of identity,” she said.

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“And it's very important to allow the person you love to be who they are — even if [sometimes] you don't like it very much,” she added.

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