'Glee' Alum Slams Hilary Duff's 'Petty' Husband For 'Attacking' Ashley Tisdale On Social Media
By Jacquez Printup on January 14, 2026 at 3:15 PM EST

"Glee" actress Becca Tobin wasted no time blasting Hilary Duff's "petty" husband after he mocked Ashley Tisdale's personal essay about "toxic" friend groups.
In a new statement, Tobin, who also appeared on Broadway in "Rock of Ages," expressed her sadness over Tisdale and Duff's very public falling out, hinting that nothing positive has come from their dramatic feud.
'Glee' Actress Slams Hilary Duff's 'Petty' Husband After He Mocked Ashley Tisdale
Speaking on the "LadyGang" podcast, Tobin didn't hold back when discussing the viral dispute that's taken the world by storm. "There's no loser in this group to me," she said. "Not one. Except for Hilary Duff's husband."
The singer went further, calling it "gross" when husbands decide to jump into their wives' personal drama and get "petty."
"Especially since Ashley did not name names. If Ashley had come out and said Hilary was said person being a mean girl, I would understand the husband coming to her defense," Tobin continued. "But I really am rubbed the wrong way when a man inserts himself like this, and it's solely for him to get attention."
Tobin Says Koma 'Attacked' Tisdale By Going After Her On Social Media

As the conversation continued, the podcast's hosts likened Tisdale and Duff's personal drama to the hit reality show "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives," with one saying the altercation was "giving like a reality show, dumb-ss husband drama."
Tobin chimed back in, saying Koma "attacked a woman" before saying how "tacky" the father of three's statements were.
According to Tobin, she'd be mortified to learn that her husband had gotten involved in her personal drama and had gone for the jugular. "It's like she goes low, and then he goes lower," Tobin said of Koma.
"And I think it's actually really gross when a man comments on something like this. And it's offensive. It's offensive for what he said about her. I don't like it at all," she added.
Koma Shaded Tisdale With A Social Media Post, Causing People To Believe She Was Writing About Hilary Duff

According to The Blast, Tisdale made waves in early January 2026 when she authored a personal essay in "The Cut" about leaving her "toxic" group of mom friends. While the "High School Musical" alum didn't reveal names, it didn't take long for eagle-eyed sleuths to guess the Disney star was talking about Duff and fellow celeb Mandy Moore.
Just a few days later, Koma weighed in on the topic, sharing a post to his Instagram Stories of him mimicking Tisdale's personal essay cover. Adding fuel to the fire, Koma captioned the post, "When You're The Most Self Obsessed Tone Deaf Person On Earth, Other Moms Tend To Shift Focus To Their Actual Toddlers." He added, "A Mom Group Tell All Through A Father's Eyes."
In her writing, Tisdale detailed how her relationship with her group of celebrity mom friends had changed after learning they were allegedly excluding her from group events. At the end of her essay, the "Phineas and Ferb" actor shared an important message she'd learned amid the chaos.
"You deserve to go through motherhood with people who actually, you know, like you. And if you have to wonder if they do, here's the hard-earned lesson I hope you'll take to heart: It's not the right group for you. Even if it looks like they're having the best time on Instagram," she concluded.
Another Celeb's Husband Weighed In On Tisdale Drama

Koma isn't the only celebrity husband to address the falling-out between Tisdale and her group of A-list moms.
Daryl Sabara—husband to Meghan Trainor, who's also rumored to be part of the "toxic" mom group—sent the "Be Good to Me" singer well-wishes after learning she'd made headlines.
Chatting with TMZ while leaving Alan Cumming's Hollywood Walk of Fame ceremony, Sabara eased fans' minds, saying there's no beef between his wife and Tisdale.
"No drama over here," he said. "I hope she's OK, though."
Trainor Seemingly Co-Signs Partner's Statements

In an attempt to also clear her name and distance herself from the drama, Trainor posted a TikTok video of herself mouthing the words to a viral sound. "Come on, you have to believe me! Please, you have to believe me, you have to believe me," the singer could be seen saying. "Me still trying to convince everyone I'm not involved in the mom group drama," Trainor captioned the video. "I swear I'm innocent."