Ray J Shares Bizarre Theory On Why He Wasn't Invited To Sean 'Diddy' Combs' 'Freak Off' Parties

Singer Ray J made a bizarre statement about Sean 'Diddy' Combs and his "freak off" parties during a recent livestream, claiming he wasn't invited to the events because of his appearance.

As many know, Diddy was arrested in September 2024 and later tried in 2025, during which he was found guilty of two counts of transportation for prostitution.

During one of his livestreams, Ray J spoke about his looks and said he believed they were the reason he didn't get an invite to Diddy's "freak offs."

"Just like when they keep talking about the 'freak offs' with Diddy, I’m like yo (I) ain’t ever got invited to the 'freak offs,' and that’s when it hit me, I’m ugly," he said. "It hit me that I'm unattractive."

Ray J's comments come just three months after the disgraced rapper was sentenced to 50 months in prison for violating the Mann Act. During his trial in the summer of 2025, victims who were involved in Diddy's "freak offs," including his ex-girlfriend Cassie Ventura and a male escort, spoke about how being involved in the drug-filled orgies impacted them.

According to The Blast, while on the stand, Cassie recalled the first time Diddy asked her to have sex with another man. "I was 22 at the time, my stomach churned, didn't have a concept of how that would be a turn on, but I accepted the responsibility," she said. "I was confused, nervous, but also loved him very much and wanted to make him happy."

Cassie explained that she was opposed to participating in the "freak offs" but went along with them to make Diddy happy. The "Me & U" singer also implied that she felt forced into them, saying, "At some point, I felt I didn't have much of a choice."

During her harrowing testimony, Cassie said she had no time or space to do anything other than perform in "freak offs."

"Staying out for days on end, taking drugs and drinking, having sex with a stranger," she said. "They would be 36, 48, 72 hours, the longest one was four days."

Cassie, 39, described feeling "disgusting" and "humiliated" after participating in the sex acts. "I didn’t have the words to show how horrible I felt. I couldn’t talk to anyone about it," she recalled.

She also remembered questioning her reality due to the amount of drugs she was using. "I was so high I didn't feel much," she said. "Did this really happen to me? I didn’t know what was going to happen after that, if we were going to do it more frequently, I said yes to more, I didn't want to make him upset or angry."

While incarcerated at FCI Fort Dix in New Jersey, Diddy has filed numerous appeals while also making public statements about his time behind bars through his lawyer.

The Blast reported on his latest move, which involved delisting his Beverly Hills mansion more than a year after listing it.

The 90210 property was the center of public attention in March 2024 following Homeland Security's raid, during which various firearms were located inside the home, according to NBC News.

Since Diddy received his 50-month sentence, Netflix has released a four-part docuseries about him titled "Sean Combs: The Reckoning."

The series is produced by Diddy's longtime adversary, 50 Cent, who opened up about his decision to partner with the streaming giant to tell this story. "If I didn't say anything, you would interpret it as hip-hop is fine with his behavior," 50 told Robin Roberts.

The series featured exclusive, never-before-seen footage of Diddy's days before his September 2024 arrest, some of which showed the rapper speaking poorly about Harlem community members he had posed for pictures with on the side of the road.

Diddy's spokesperson responded to the claims made in the series, dismissing the project as a "shameful hit piece."

"Several of these stories have already been addressed in court filings, and others were never raised in any legal forum because they're simply not true. The project was built around a one-sided narrative led by a publicly admitted adversary, and it repeats allegations without context, evidence, or verification," the statement said.