Aubrey O’Day Weighs In On Forgiving Diddy For Allegedly Raping Her
By Afouda Bamidele on December 23, 2025 at 6:00 PM EST

Aubrey O'Day is not ready to discuss this chapter of her life with Diddy in it!
The singer, who was once a close associate of the embattled mogul in the early 2000s, broke her silence on his ongoing fate and how much work she has to do to heal from all the hurt he allegedly caused her.
Aubrey O'Day was recently featured in a Netflix documentary about Diddy, where she stressed that the witness account about the rapper assaulting her has remained consistent.
Aubrey O'Day Says Diddy Should Forgive Himself

The singer explained during an interview with CBS that the option of forgiving the rapper is not on the table. Instead, Aubrey emphasized that the bulk of the work is on him to forgive himself and be a better person.
The musician continued in the interview that on her part, she has forgiven herself, and all the feelings she now carries with her are not of despair, but of an understanding that she should not beat herself up for misinterpreting abuse as love.
"Those weren't one and the same. And so I had to forgive myself first," Aubrey added. She also emphasized that Diddy is currently not getting the justice he deserves for his actions. For now, the singer just wants to help people and become a voice for the underdogs, something she did not spend the majority of her life doing.
The 41-Year-Old Considered The Account Of The Eyewitness To Her Assault

The singer featured in the viral Netflix documentary "Sean Combs: The Reckoning," where she spoke about a witness affidavit that claimed that the rapper sexually assaulted her. According to the affidavit, Combs and another man unleashed the sexual terror on a very incapable, weak, and compromised Aubrey.
Interestingly, Aubrey revealed that she has no recollection of the incident and still remains unsure if she was raped or not. The musician noted that ignorance would be a preferable bliss in her situation, but the witness's story might hold some truth because it has been consistent for a while now.
The documentary, which was executive produced by 50 Cent, featured several unseen footage and shocking interviews that explored the rapper's rise in Hollywood, the allegations that surrounded his career, and his eventual collapse from fame.
Aubrey O'Day Reveals The Impact Of Diddy's Federal Trial On Her Sex Life

During the peak of the producer's federal trial in New York, O'Day revealed that the process practically put off her sex life and will to even engage in any romantic relationship.
"And I talked to Homeland Security over a year and something ago. I haven't been interested [in dating]. I haven't had sex in years," the singer stated.
As reported by The Blast, Aubrey added that the details of confessions from Diddy's alleged victims and eyewitnesses of his freakoffs have been unbearable to fathom. She had also previously slammed him for even letting his kids attend the trials where his victims gave their confessions.
Aubrey wondered why any father would want their children to sit through testimony about how much their daddy liked to watch people get lubricated, f-cking, getting p-ssed on, and urinating in their mouths.
The singer expressed her hopes to finally see the singer brought to book and serve time for the charges he was indicted on after a thorough trial and investigation.
The 'Famously Single' Star Highlighted The 'Coming Home' Rapper's Violent Nature

When Cassie's allegations of domestic abuse and sexual assault against the rapper dropped, Aubrey was front row in affirming that Diddy indeed did what he was accused of.
The Blast stated that she took to Instagram to share a post about the lawsuit with a caption informing people that she has been trying to tell this story for years.
She then added another clip of her appearance on Kail Lowry's "Barely Famous" podcast, where she played a game of rapid-fire questions and was asked if "Diddy put the hit out on Tupac." In the podcast, the singer hinted that the rapper might have played a significant role in the murder.
"I did spend one of the most interesting nights of my life with Suge Knight, and I did ask him who killed Pac. And I also hung out with Biggie's mom, and I asked her who killed Biggie," Aubrey noted.
She buttressed her point with another clip of Diddy basically threatening her during her time as a member of his group "Danity Kane." Aubrey had also revealed that the rapper made her sign an NDA never to say scandalous things about him or his record label, "Bad Boy."
How Aubrey O'Day Reacted To Diddy's Guilty Verdict

The singer was among the first set of celebrities to give a statement on Diddy’s verdict. The rapper was found guilty on two counts of transporting individuals to engage in prostitution but escaped accusations of racketeering conspiracy and two counts of sex trafficking by force, fraud, or coercion.
Diddy’s guilty verdict came after the jury deliberated for nearly 72 hours, and the outcome did not impress Aubrey. She took to her Instagram story to express her displeasure at how the whole case turned out, stating that it made her “physically ill” to know the rapper basically got a slap on the wrist.
As for Diddy’s estranged girlfriend, Cassie, her team emphasized that the guilty verdict was a result of Cassie coming out to share her story in the first place, which then opened a can of worms and encouraged other victims to speak up.
Well done to Aubrey O’Day on forgiving herself!