Keith Urban’s Mysterious Behavior Has Nicole Kidman’s Friends Deeply Worried

By Chukwudi Onyewuchi on October 6, 2025 at 1:30 PM EDT

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Nicole Kidman has always seemed the picture of composure, but behind her calm smile, the Oscar winner’s private world has been unraveling.

Her sudden split from Keith Urban has triggered a whirlwind of speculation, accusations, and shocking public behavior.

From viral onstage moments to whispers of a “younger woman,” insiders reveal Kidman’s painful new reality and her fight to stay strong.

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Nicole Kidman’s Poise Cracks Amid Private Turmoil

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On September 22, Kidman sat gracefully on stage at the Nashville Film Festival, sharing her insights at a panel titled Where Art Meets Home.

The audience saw a polished star in command of her craft.

However, they didn’t know that, just two weeks earlier, she had signed a custody agreement finalizing her separation from Keith Urban.

The couple’s 19-year marriage had already ended in heartbreak.

Kidman remained at their seven-bedroom gated mansion with daughters Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 14, while Urban walked out.

Behind closed doors, sources describe her unraveling. “Keith looks as if he's out to try to publicly embarrass and hurt Nic,” one insider told the Daily Mail. “He's always been the quieter one, but now that seems to have changed.”

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The Keith Urban Awakening And A Younger Woman Rumor

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While Nicole Kidman was quietly regrouping, Urban was making headlines on stage.

His performances suddenly carried an edge, especially alongside 25-year-old guitarist Maggie Baugh.

Rumors swirled that she was the “younger woman in the music industry” linked to him.

Fans were stunned when Urban altered lyrics he once dedicated to Kidman, switching her name to Baugh’s during a recent show.

“The fact that he changed the lyrics in the song he wrote about Nic and made it a dedication to his young guitarist Maggie Baugh says so much about how he's dealing with their separation and how he feels about Nic,” a source said. “This is a total 180 from the Keith I know. It seems like a switch has gone off in his head to awaken this vitriol he appears to have for her.”

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Nicole Kidman Haunted By Echoes Of Tom Cruise Divorce

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For Kidman’s friends, the saga feels painfully familiar. They remember 2001, when Tom Cruise blindsided her by filing for divorce just after their tenth anniversary.

“I thought our life together was perfect,” Kidman admitted years later. “It was a shock to my system. It took me a very long time to heal.”

Cruise cryptically added at the time, “She knows why, and I know why.”

Now, insiders say, Kidman is reliving the shame.

“I feel so bad for Nic and what she's going through. It's like she's reliving her split from Tom all over again when she was shamed in front of the world,” one friend shared.

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Another insider revealed, “She wanted to still be with Keith, but here we are. It has been a very sad and frustrating week. With a very heavy heart she is going through all the emotions right now and realizing that it is actually over.”

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Custody Resolution, Public Sightings, And Life After Keith Urban

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The separation turned official with TMZ reports confirming the couple’s split after living apart for months.

Hopes of reconciliation evaporated when Kidman filed for divorce citing “irreconcilable differences.”

Court documents revealed she was awarded primary custody of their daughters, 306 days a year, leaving Urban with just 59 days.

By midweek, photographs showed Kidman seeking comfort on a hike with her sister, journalist Antonia Kidman.

Meanwhile, Urban was already back on stage, notably without his wedding ring, touring through Pennsylvania, Connecticut, and Virginia.

Friends say his demons loom large. Urban has long battled alcohol and cocaine addiction.

Just months after his 2006 wedding to Kidman, she staged an intervention that sent him back to rehab. Old wounds are resurfacing.

“He isn't going through a midlife crisis,” one source said. “He is going through changes in his personal and professional life, and they just happen to be happening all at once. He's just fallen out of love with Nicole, and the decisions that have had to be made are ones that were and are important to him, as he knows that they aren't getting back together.”

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Nicole Kidman Turns To Work As Her Escape

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As Keith Urban pushes through his High and Alive tour, Kidman is leaning on her career to navigate the storm.

She is producing the thriller "The Silent Wife," developing the film "Love, Pain and the Whole Damn Thing," and recently optioned a television series ominously titled "A Good Marriage."

Despite heartbreak, the actress is channeling resilience.

Her week from hell may have reignited painful memories of past betrayals, but friends insist she is determined to endure.

The wounds are deep, yet Kidman has rebuilt before, and she may do it again, this time on her own terms.

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