Anya Lacey Tells Singles To Delete Hinge And Try Her Dating Site

In a world where dating apps dominate every swipe and scroll, Anya Lacey is throwing down the gauntlet.

The viral influencer and outspoken conservative is pushing singles to ditch Hinge and return to traditional values.

With her brand-new site, dateanya.com, she promises a no-nonsense approach to love, commitment, and clarity in a culture she says has lost its way.

“Apps aren’t working. Women are exhausted. Men are confused,” Lacey said in a chat with The Blast. “So I created something that cuts through the noise.”

Her new platform is not just another dating app clone. Instead, it’s designed to reflect her values, clear-cut, unapologetic, and intentionally gendered.

Visitors immediately see two paths: one offering dating advice for women and the other offering guidance for men.

Each page on Dateanya.com is filled with her trademark tough-love style and unapologetic commentary.

“Women need to stop chasing,” she declares in one post. “Men need to start leading again.”

And people are paying attention. Her bold statements resonate with followers who feel modern hookup culture has gone too far.

At the center of the site is a standout feature: the “Date Me” form, a Typeform embedded right on the homepage.

Hundreds of applicants have already jumped in to answer a string of questions that get straight to the point.

Some of the most revealing prompts include: Would you give up Instagram for your wife? Do you believe in splitting bills? How long until we’re getting married?

“Those aren’t gotcha questions,” she explained. “They’re just the truth. I don’t waste time.”

For Lacey, it’s not just about matchmaking. It’s about empowering women to set higher standards and embrace their boundaries. “I want to give women the confidence to say no to chaos, and yes to clarity,” she said.

The website also plays into her curated tradwife image, featuring staged yet provocative photos of her cooking, scrubbing floors, or hanging laundry.

“It’s tongue-in-cheek, but also real,” she noted. “This is how I live. I’m just hot while doing it.”

Beyond the gallery and form, Lacey monetizes her expertise with paid consultations. For a fee, clients can work directly with her to analyze their dating patterns and reset expectations. She doesn’t mince words about what she offers.

“I’m not a therapist. I’m your brutally honest big sister,” she said. “You pay me to tell you what your friends won’t.”

Her unconventional journey from conservative roots to a past on OnlyFans and now a growing influence on TikTok and Reddit makes her polarizing, but she’s fully aware of that.

“I’m not building a brand,” she said. “I’m building a lifestyle.”

And whether people love her or loathe her, one thing’s for sure: Anya Lacey is rewriting the rules of modern dating one unapologetic post at a time.

Lacey calls herself a “former pizza-delivery girl turned top creator,” but her rise has been anything but ordinary.

With red lipstick, unapologetic opinions, and a flair for “tradwife glam,” she’s built a massive audience by saying what many only whisper. Her message is simple: God, family, country, and traditional gender roles.

Her content, often viral on TikTok and Reddit, cuts through modern dating culture with bold declarations. “When men show up as providers and protectors, women relax into their feminine — and everyone wins,” she says.

Unapologetically conservative, she doesn’t soften her stance for mainstream approval.

She shared, “I’m not here to be palatable. I’m here to help serious men and women find serious love.”

Her “non-negotiables” make that clear: faith-friendly, family-minded, financially responsible, and absolutely no tolerance for hookup culture or “open relationship nonsense.”

Lacey insists that “gender isn’t a vibe — it’s biology. Masculinity and femininity are both good.” She also believes romance demands structure: “I don’t split the bill on a first date. If you want a buddy, get a gym partner.”

Hookup culture, she warns, is “a dead end,” while exclusivity before intimacy is non-negotiable.

“Marriage is a timeline, not a vibe,” she explains. “If we’re exclusive, we’re discussing dates, not ‘seeing where it goes.’”

Her dating tips lean equally hard on men and women. To women, she says, “Choose like a queen, not a critic… feminine is not weak — it’s strategic.” To men, her challenge is direct: “Men should lead with action, not vibes. Provide, protect, problem-solve.”

Lacey’s message is clear: if you’re tired of modern dating chaos, she has no patience for excuses, only commitment, clarity, and old-school values.