Male Escort Who Was A 'Regular' At Diddy 'Freak-Offs' Reveals Never-Before-Heard Details About The Infamous Parties
By Favour Adegoke on June 26, 2025 at 12:45 PM EDT
Updated on June 26, 2025 at 2:05 PM EDT

A male escort, Anton Harden, who claims Sean "Diddy" Combs hired him, has come forward with new details about the rapper's alleged private sex parties, infamously referred to as "freak-offs" and "hotel nights."
The OnlyFans star said he thought the rapper's drug-fueled romps were between "consenting adults" and had no idea that some of the women involved were allegedly being coerced.
Anton Harden also detailed how he met Sean "Diddy" Combs for the first time and how the arrangement he had with the rapper eventually unraveled.
The Male Escort Thought He Was On An Episode Of 'Punk'd' After Meeting Diddy For The First Time

In a chat with the Daily Mail, Harden, who claims to have been a "regular" at Diddy's drug-fueled parties, opened up about meeting the rapper and beginning a "freak-off" arrangement back in October 2022.
According to the adult film star, he was contacted via social media by "Jane," an alleged victim of Diddy who recently testified in the rapper's sex crimes trial.
She asked him whether he was "single" and then proposed an arrangement involving sex with her while her wealthy husband watched.
Harden claimed he agreed to the arrangement but told her it would not be free, which she accepted.
However, to Harden's utmost surprise, Diddy turned out to be the supposed wealthy husband when he arrived at the high-profile L.A. hotel where Jane had arranged for a first meeting.
"I get there and Diddy opens the door and says, 'come on in,'" Harden recalled. "I'm a fan of black music and culture, so I obviously knew who it was. Honestly, I'm thinking at this point, 'am I on an episode of Punk'd?'"
Anton Harden Claims His First 'Freak-Off' Felt Like An 'Adult Film Set'

What followed next was a quick smoke session with drinks and small talk, after which Jane emerged from the bathroom wearing just a robe.
Meanwhile, the room had already been set up for the "freak-off," with the bed covered in towels, red lighting flooding the space, and a camera phone mounted on a tripod—seemingly to record the sexual encounter.
And when it began, it felt "almost like being on an adult film set," with Diddy directing every move made by the male escort and Jane.
"Diddy would tell you where to stand, at which angle, what to do. Go slower, go faster, oral or intercourse," Harden said.
"He would direct her to apply the baby oil on herself or on me. Everything was very orchestrated by him. It was his show."
Not only did Diddy direct the drug-fueled romp, Harden claimed that he also wanted him to "exaggerate" and would sometimes join. However, the "freak-offs" never involved any "gay stuff," contrary to rumors that have swirled since the rapper's arrest in September.
Diddy Paid The Male Escort Based On Performance

Between meeting Diddy and his eventual arrest, Harden had around 10 or so sessions with the rapper and Jane.
Each time he met them, he was paid up to $7,000, but this was determined by whether Diddy was impressed by his performance.
"Actually, it was performance-based," Harden said about the hedonistic sessions. "How long the night goes, how many times I would climax, how good he thought it was."
Ultimately, the arrangement ended in June 2024 after a session in which Jane performed oral sex on him while Diddy watched.
According to Harden, he left for home and later received $4,000 in a dispatch package as payment. But when he called Jane to confirm the actual amount she had sent him, Diddy called back and claimed he had upset her.
Anton Harden Says He Believed All The Diddy' Freak-Offs' Were 'Consensual'

It was Jane's testimony in Diddy's trial that finally led Harden to realize their "freak-off" arrangement might have ended for a different reason.
During her testimony, Jane shared that Diddy had stumbled upon text messages between her and Harden, including one about a Las Vegas party where they had coincidentally bumped into each other.
Upon seeing the message, Diddy accused Jane of going to another man's "freak-off" and allegedly physically assaulted her on the day of their final meetup.
However, when Harden arrived, he was unaware of the violence that had occurred, seemingly misled by the fact that "Jane was very inviting" and "all hugs and smiles."
He also said he "didn't notice any bruising or damage to her apartment."
The Male Escort Expresses Regret For Being At Diddy's Freak Offs: 'Almost Feels Like Blood Money Now'

In hindsight, Harden said he had always believed that he was "just there for a good time with consenting adults."
"If she was putting on an act, through coercion, that's super f-cked up and terrible. It almost feels like blood money now," the male escort added.
In 2024, Diddy was arrested on September 16 on charges of racketeering, sex trafficking, and transportation to engage in prostitution.
With his fate in the hands of the jury in his sex crimes trial, the rapper risks spending the rest of his life in prison if found guilty of the top charge.