Pamela Anderson Rejects Getting Back With Tommy Lee Despite Hope To 'Repair The Relationship'

By Afouda Bamidele on May 19, 2025 at 7:30 PM EDT

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Pamela Anderson is all about letting the past stay in the past!

The actress is reportedly shutting down all possibilities of her and ex-Tommy Lee finding their way back to each other despite his current marital troubles.

Pamela Anderson and the Mötley Crüe drummer were married for three years and tied the knot in a special wedding ceremony during a Mexico getaway. The former couple welcomed two sons before their marriage crashed.

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Pamela Anderson Has Reportedly Laid Her Once Golden Idea Of Reconciliation To Rest

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As it stands, Anderson has no intention of rekindling her relationship with her ex-husband, Lee, even if his current marriage to Brittany Furlan ends. 

Sources close to Anderson confirmed that she has moved on and has no interest in Lee's situation, expressing a sense of relief at being distanced from him. While there was a time when feelings lingered, those close to her believe that there's no chance of a reunion now.

The actress is now focused on herself and enjoying her single life. Earlier in 2023, she did reach out to the drummer to express her feelings prior to the release of her Netflix documentary, calling him her "one true love."

Meanwhile, her ex and his estranged wife have been living apart for two weeks, with concerns from those around them about Lee's drinking habits. 

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Despite suggestions for him to seek sobriety, TMZ gathered that the drummer has been resistant. As of now, it reportedly remains uncertain whether either of them plans to pursue a divorce.

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The Actress Planned A Reconciliation To Help Them Become Better Grandparents

Last year, The Blast shared that Anderson expressed her hopes of mending her relationship with her ex-husband, particularly in light of their shared role as grandparents. 

Following the engagement of her youngest son last summer, the Canadian actress expressed a desire to "peacefully co-grandparent" with the drummer. She acknowledged the importance of fostering a positive bond for the sake of their family. 

A source mentioned that while Anderson is not looking to become overly close with her estranged husband, she recognized that he has his own life to lead. 

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During an appearance on "Andy Cohen Live," she reflected on their diminished communication, wishing they had a better rapport like they once did. Despite the current challenges, Anderson remained optimistic about the future, stating that "it'll be OK eventually."

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Inside The Former Couple's Attempt At Regrouping Romantically After Their Split

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Anderson has experienced notable relationships following her highly publicized marriage and divorce to Lee. After their initial separation, she married Kid Rock in 2006, but that union lasted only a year. In 2007, she wed poker player Rick Salomon, though their marriage ended in 2008.

Despite these challenges, the model remained open to love, briefly rekindling her romance with Lee, leading to a second marriage in 2014 that also ended in divorce the same year. 

In 2020, she made headlines again for a short-lived marriage to Jon Peters, which lasted only 12 days; however, she later clarified that they never formally finalized their union. By January 2021, the model had married her bodyguard, Dan Hayhurst, but in 2022, her publicist announced their split.

On the other hand, Lee found love with comedian Furlan, whom he married in 2019 after connecting on a celebrity dating app. The couple has remained together since their reported split.

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Pamela Anderson's Recollection About Tommy Lee's Jealousy

In her 2023 memoir "Love, Pamela," the actress candidly discussed the tumultuous moments in her relationship with Lee. One significant incident occurred while filming a steamy scene for "Baywatch," where she had to kiss her co-star David Chokachi, who was also her character's love interest. 

Anderson admitted she had not informed the drummer about the scene in advance, which sparked his jealousy and anger, reflecting his possessive tendencies. The aftermath was chaotic, as the musician reacted fiercely, trashing her trailer and damaging property. 

The mom-of-two recalled expressing her remorse for not being upfront, apologizing for her oversight. However, she acknowledged the strain on their relationship, revealing how deeply the incident affected her.

Lee's Estranged Wife Reveals His Connection To Heather Locklear

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The American singer is known by the women in his life for his complex emotions, particularly his past relationships. His now estranged wife revealed that he still holds deep feelings for his ex-wife, Heather Locklear.

Their tumultuous eight-year relationship, from 1986 to 1993 before Lee married Anderson, left a lasting impression on him. Furlan noted that the drummer often referred to Locklear as "the one that got away," emphasizing her positive qualities as a "fun, sweet, caring, awesome person."

Despite the challenges in their past, Furlan mentioned that Lee acknowledged his mistakes during their relationship, including infidelity, which has contributed to them maintaining a strong friendship to this day.

Looks like it is truly the end of the road for Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee!

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