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Shawn Mendes Says 'I Don’t Really Know Sometimes' About His Sexuality

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By Afouda Bamidele on October 29, 2024 at 10:15 AM EDT

Shawn Mendes is out here laying it bare about his life and sexuality.

The "Never Be Alone" singer got vulnerable with his audience during a concert performance about the pressure of figuring out his sexual identity.

Shawn Mendes is back performing his songs after taking a break from his world tour in 2022 to focus on his mental health.

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Shawn Mendes Says 'I'm Just Figuring It Out Like Everyone'

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The pop star took a brief moment to talk about the speculations surrounding his sexuality over the years during his concert at the Red Rocks Amphitheatre in Colorado on Monday night.

In the viral clip, Mendes acknowledged how starting out in the industry at such a young age limited him from fully exploring his sexuality. He said:

"There's this thing about my sexuality, and people have talked about it for so long…The truth about my life and my sexuality is that, man, I'm just figuring it out like everyone."

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The singer explained that he sometimes gets confused and admitted, "It feels really scary because we live in a society that has a lot to say about that." He also introduced a new song to the audience, explaining that writing the song felt essential for expressing his truths in a heartfelt manner.

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Fans React To The 'Mercy' Singer's Latest Statement

Mendes fans trooped to the comment section to air their opinions on his latest statement. "If you're his age and 'still figuring it out,' I think it's safe to say you're pansexual or, more commonly, bisexual," someone wrote.

Another commenter showed solidarity with the singer, writing, "Good for him. He deserves the space to figure it out, and he doesn't owe anyone an explanation."

"He's had to endure so much from so many people and it's so unfair," stated this fan

"So talented, such a beautiful singer-songwriter and introspective soul. It's abusive what he's endured, let him be," another follower advised. One commenter reiterated the concept of not judging people indiscriminately as he wrote:

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"We've got to learn to get out of legal consenting adult's beds. Idc if it's Shawn, Whitney H, Simone B, or Bey. Let ppl choose who they want in their grown [bed emoji]. Outing and judging people in this freaky az economy is Wild.. We've go to go to work and I hate it here. What are we doing??"

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The Singer Went Into Therapy Last Year After Canceling His Tour

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In February 2023, The Blast noted that the 26-year-old disclosed it was vital for him to cancel his tour as he needed to get professional intervention for his mental health issues. In his words:

"The process was very difficult. A lot of doing therapy, a lot of trying to understand how I was feeling and what was making me feel that way. And then doing the work to help myself and heal. And also leaning on people in my life to help a little bit."

Despite how arduous therapy and the whole process was for him, he described it as the "most eye-opening and growing and beautiful and just healing process."

Mendes also acknowledged the help he got from people around him who were "so accepting and loving and kind and understanding." Having his small village of helpful people opened his eyes to how progressive the world has become and how mental health is becoming a very important talking point.

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Inside Mendes' Alleged Relationship With An Older Medical Practitioner 

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While he was away from the stage, the singer allegedly built a romantic connection with 51-year-old Dr. Jocelyne Miranda in 2023. Miranda has an educational and medical background in biomechanics, biodynamics, and soft tissues.

The speculations filled the air after she was spotted entering his apartment with an overnight bag and was escorted by the award-winning singer, who wore a black tank top and gray cargo pants.

The alleged romantic duo were first romantically linked last July after they were captured on a lunch date together. If true, she would be his first girlfriend since singer Camila Cabello.

Fans quickly recalled that the pair had previously worked together on the singer's tour in 2018-2019. Miranda was also reportedly present during his performance at the American Music Awards (AMAs), the MTV Video Music Awards, and "Saturday Night Live."

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Shawn Mendes Reignited Reconciliation Rumors With Camila Cabello This Year

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Miranda's chapter apparently closed as the singer and his on-and-off girlfriend set the tongues wagging back in July at a soccer game. The Blast reported that they sat together in a private box at Hard Rock Stadium, where fans would not stop taking their pictures.

Cabello and Mendes appeared unfazed by the flashing lights as they sat and chatted the whole time. The famous pair began the relationship in 2019 after their first meeting and a prolonged friendship in 2014.

However, since their first official split in 2021, the estranged duo have tried and failed at getting back together with instances of short-lived flings.

Shawn Mendes has shown bravery in the face of the pressures of stardom by sharing his struggles with the public.

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