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Ariana Grande's Song ‘The Boy Is Mine’ Allegedly A Dig At Her Boyfriend’s Estranged Wife

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By Favour Adegoke on March 13, 2024 at 1:15 PM EDT

Ariana Grande's song "The Boy Is Mine" has sparked new controversies about her relationship with Ethan Slater.

According to reports, the new music is a "slap in the face" for Slater's ex-wife, Lilly Jay, as some have suggested that its lyrics were targeted at mocking her.

Slater and Jay are still in the middle of finalizing their divorce, including determining the custody arrangement for their son, Ezra.

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Ariana Grande's New Song Is A 'Slap In The Face' Of  Lily Jay

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Fans would recall that Grande and Slater's whirlwind romance was swiftly overshadowed by allegations that Slater cheated on his wife, Jay, to pursue a relationship with the pop star.

While those allegations were never confirmed, the recent release of Grande's song "The Boy Is Mine" has raised eyebrows once again, as sources claim it is a "slap in the face" of Jay.

"Ariana's new album just shows what kind of woman she truly is. To sing a song called The Boy Is Mine is not only a slap in the face to his still wife Lilly but a slap in the face to all women," an insider told the Daily Mail.

The source then claimed that Grande tried to play a smart one by asking her fans not to interpret the song in the wrong way, even though she allegedly set out to mock Jay.

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They added, "Ariana basically rubbed it in Lilly's face that she stole Ethan from Lilly, then asks her fans to not interpret her song the wrong way. This is not an interpretation. It is her literal words."

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Why The Singer Allegedly Wrote The Song

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One of the lyrics that caused the uproar read, "Please know this ain't what I planned for… Something about him is made for somebody like me."

Another one had the words, "The boy is mine/ I can't wait to try him/Le-let's get intertwined/ The stars, they aligned."

According to the source, Grande decided to drop such a song because she is yet to have Slater all to herself due to him still being legally tied to Jay.

The insider said, "Ariana left nothing up to interpretation. She spelled it out and those close to Lilly believe she did this because she is upset that Ethan's divorce is still dragging out."

"She wants him all to herself and feels that – because he is still legally married – she cannot truly have him," they added.

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Grande's rationale for writing the song has been criticized following earlier backlash regarding her single "Yes, And?"

Lines from the song, such as "Why do you care so much whose d--- I ride?" "Your business is yours, and mine is mine" made many assume that the pop star was not remorseful for her actions.

A source told the publication, "For her to take the opportunity in her first song since all of this went down to show a complete lack of remorse for her actions is utterly disrespectful."

They added, "Ariana is dating a man who is still married. She is flaunting her relationship with a married man – a married man who has a one-year-old child at home with his still wife. Yes, Ariana has destroyed a home and she does not seem to care."

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Ethan Slater And Lily Jay Are 'In The Meditation Phase' Of Their Divorce

Ethan Slater's Wife Is Reportedly 'A Wreck' Over His Romance With Ariana Grande
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In the meantime, Slater and Jay are still hashing out their divorce process, which is complicated by the fact that they share a son, Ezra.

According to information obtained by US Weekly, the duo is "in the mediation phase" of their divorce. This reportedly involves determining custody agreements and the financial details of their divorce.

The estranged couple has opted for an out-of-court style to figure out the process, preventing a messy battle that would lead to documents being unsealed.

Per reports, Slater is "eager to get things finalized with the divorce" and is currently "happy" in his relationship with Grande. Meanwhile, Jay has spoken up a number of times about the breakdown of her marriage, once saying she felt "betrayed" by Grande.

Ariana Grande's Friends Feels She Needs To 'Slow Down' With Ethan Slater

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According to Radar Online, insiders suggest that the "Breakup With Your Girlfriend, I'm Bored" singer's inner circle feels she needs to slow down on the romance with Slater.

Grande's fast-paced romance with Slater has reportedly raised concerns within her close pals. Her friends fear that it might cause her to make impulsive decisions after she finalized her divorce from Dalton Gomez.

An insider noted that the "Thank U, Next" hitmaker "falls hard and fast."

"That's who she is," the source shared. "Everyone is telling her to slow down before she makes another mistake — but she is that girl who can never stay single for long."

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