Blast Reddit Wars: What Tells You Someone Wasn't Raised Right?

Is there a sign that immediately tells you someone wasn't raised right?

A Redditor who goes by spirallinggg wanted to know what other people thought the sure-fire signs are that a person was not raised well. Thousands of Reddit users had some ideas to share in the thread, "What immediately tells you that a person wasn't raised right?"

"I remember being in a McDonald's drive through with someone I recently started dating. They took a cup from their cupholder and threw it out the window. Lost all feelings for them. I told them off and demanded they turn around and pick the cup back up. They kept arguing the McDonald's workers will pick it up. I argued I didn't care and they can't just fu**ing toss cups out their window. Dumba** forgot wind existed, I guess? Glad I left them, littering wasn't the main reason but holy hell did it break me out of my trance."

~ShlorpianRooster

"Lack of personal accountability. they can never admit wrongdoing on their part. It's always someone else's fault."

~Sona-kin

"When a person is supposed to apologize but makes excuses instead."

~roomshka

"Some pretty small things that tell me everything:

• Cutting the line when you clearly see people waiting in front of you.
• Disrespecting servers or cashiers.
• Not holding the door for someone who's directly behind you or coming towards you.
• Dropping an empty fast food bag or soda cup casually out a car window.
• Leaving the table you were eating at in a food court or a fast food restaurant or any restaurant a disaster.
• Leaving the shopping cart in an unideal location if a cart corral is nearby."

~TheSnowman10-4

"People who dump refrigerated grocery products on random aisles."

~glockops

"When a person doesn’t respect the word 'no.' When someone feels entitled to know why a person says no, then they weren’t raised to mind their own business."

~Ranku78

"When someone apologizes, and then adds a but onto it. For example, my boss held a meeting among the kitchen staff where he apologized for his attitude, and then added "But you guys need to understand that I'm a no bullshit kind of person." No sir, that's not how apologies work."

~GimmickInfringement1

"When they immediately start comparing trauma, 'oh your dog died by getting hit by a car? Well my dog died by getting torn apart so I feel your pain' Like bitch shut the f**k, especially if you f***ing know they are lying.

Hey so a lot of people are bringing up a good point that this is how a lot of neuro divergent people connect and I guess I should clarify this in a way that makes more sense. The people I'm talking about are the 'my life is so much harder then yours so you have to focus on me' type people, there a lot of people who do this trying to be sincere and I appreciate those people lol. I'm sorry for the misunderstanding and I hope you all have an amazing day!"

~TraumatizedDuckyyyyy

"Leaving their shopping cart in the middle of the parking lot."

~willi3blaz3

"People who don't pick up their dog's poo! Nobody wants to step in that literal shit, and it breeds disease! I was walking my dog, and this man was watching his LARGE dog poo, then he walked away. I was so mad, muttering profanities under my breath...when I saw him walk back and pick it up. He hadn't had a bag and had walked to the dog station to get one. I felt like such a heel. But I have walked past so many piles of poop, and find it so inconsiderate and trashy."

~penelopejoe