It seems that the drama surrounding Kanye West and his tumultuous relationship may soon be coming to an end.
On Thursday, his ex Kim Kardashian continued to push for a divorce, citing “emotional distress” with Ye’s recent behavior. Some of his recent Instagram posts in the past weeks have encouraged fans to belittle her new boyfriend, “Saturday Night Live” alum Pete Davidson.
A woman’s Facebook group called A Woman’s Soul has been keeping an eye on the drama and although many don’t personally care to watch their private life spill out into media headlines, one user stated that “Kanye is exemplifying exactly what people who through a divorce or toxic breakup experience.”
Women’s Facebook Group Expresses Concern For Kim Kardashian & Kids Amidst Kanye West Divorce
One post commenting on the drama got over 62K reactions, 14K comments, and 126K shares.
The post begins, “Not that I personally care about the Kanye drama but This is a really important thing for everyone to see. Kanye is exemplifying exactly what people who go through a divorce or toxic breakup experience.”
“At first they’re great, something about them is appealing,” they explained. “Then slowly you start to notice little things that are kinda weird but oh well, they’re just a little eccentric. Then you start seeing some red flags but you brush them aside because now you have a child together and they always makes up for it anyways. Then you start seeing constant red flags. They are controlling, manipulative, gaslights you, hypocritical, possessive, and sometimes seems unhinged.”
‘You try to stay because it’s what people tell you is best for the children’
“You try to stay because it’s what people tell you is best for the children but there’s no way crying every night wishing they’d be different is better. You finally get the courage to leave and suddenly they only care about the family ‘that you want to tear apart.’ If you find another partner who is genuine and kind and makes you laugh, that’s the enemy now. That must be why you left. It couldn’t possibly have anything to do with their choices to emotionally and mentally abuse you.”
“So now, they love-bomb and do dramatic public gestures to prove they love you so you look bad when you deny them access to you again,” the statement continues. “But the truth is- even if you went back, they’d revert to their old ways. Those people need help, therapy, mental health professionals to guide them to better ways. That is NOT your job.”
“Your kids are better off seeing you happy and seeing a flourishing relationship between you and a partner, even if it’s not with their other parent. Don’t teach your kids it’s ok to stay in abusive situations to please other people,” the statement adds. “Kim is just trying to be a mother and have a healthy relationship. Kanye is going crazy trying to harass her.”
The post concludes, “This is actually very sad when you realize many women have to go through this and eventually many end up with needing a restraining order or even dead because their ex went insane over them leaving. This is the point here. Stop posting Kanye doing narcissistic controlling shit and saying ‘if it’s not this I don’t want it.’ You DON’T want it, I promise.”
Many Users Are Hoping The Kanye West & Kim Kardashian Drama Ends Peacefully
Kim shares several children with the rapper: North, 8, Saint, 6, Chicago, 4, and Psalm, 2. Many individuals commented on the post to share their hopes for a peaceful resolution for the sake of their children.
“Praying for all parties involved,” one user wrote. “Ultimately none of us knows their situation and we can only project into their situation what is true of our own life experiences. Let’s hope they both seek the things that bring them peace, balance and wholeness from a space that allows the other to stay whole.”
“Thank you for pointing that out because someone had posted something about it must be her because this is her 4th marriage which from where I stand couldn’t be further from the truth,” another wrote. “I don’t care if there was 20 marriages no one deserves what her or her children are being put through no one.”
“I actually feel bad for her.. she honestly did try to make her marriage work. She had his back when the rest of the world thought he was talking out of his head/crazy, but she still stayed with him and believed in him,” another shared. “Kim is only human and we ALL have our breaking points and can take just so much.. as that is what happened to Kim. Now that she is TRYING to move on with her life and date someone else, Kanye realized what he had and now lost and he’s losing his fkn mind even more than what he had already lost. I don’t trust him, he’s that type that will take him and his whole family out just so no one else can have her. PLEASE BECAREFUL KIM!!!! God Bless “
“My heart hurts for her and I feel for him – mainly to get the help and support to recognise his behaviours and change them,” another wrote. “Never been a fan of the reality debacle that is/was their life, but can empathise on so many levels with her.”
‘Kim is in an abusive relationship and I’m scared for her’
“This is so spot on. When I saw his actions I said damn Kim is in an abusive relationship and I’m scared for her,” another wrote. “I’ve lived this very life and I’m so glad my ex didn’t have the money and resources as Kayne because it would have been impossible to leave and be safe. I’m praying for her. This isn’t about siding with Kim but speaking up against abuse, and fighting against the narrative that the survivor is to blame for their abuse. Whew God I’m so worried for her and those babies.”
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, you can call the National Domestic Violence hotline at 800-799-7233 or text HELP to Crisis Text Line at 741741. Both support services are available 24/7 in English and in Spanish.