A few weeks ago, ’90 Day Fiancé’ viewers got to see a very tense scene between Asuelu and his wife, Kalani. They were on a family road trip from Utah to California. Asuelu kept getting annoyed as he said women in America have easy jobs compared to the ones in his home country of Samoa. He also called her annoying and a "lying b*tch." This all happened right in front of Kalani's mother as well. This also came after Kalani wanted Asuelu to sit in the back seat with the baby.