Lisa Hamme aka Babygirl Lisa was one of the biggest stars of ’90 Day Fiancé”s ‘Before The 90 Days’ series this year. She was 49 at the time that she met a 29-year-old Nigerian man named Usman Umar. He also goes by Soja Boy as his stage name in his music career.
Lisa ended up visiting him in Nigeria and ended up getting marrried. This is after multiple attempts in getting Usman’s mother to give them her blessings as well.
Lisa often had many insecurities during the time that she visit Usman in Nigeria though. One of the biggest issues was him using a model in a music video for a song that was originally dedicated to her. His best friend even accused her of intentionally trying to ruin Usman’s music career. As far as his mother, she was very concerned about Lisa’s age, her not being able to have a child with him, and how Usman may have to deal with racism in America.
On the Tell All special, a deleted scene featured Usman explaining how Lisa called her the n-word. She later admitted to this and has reportedly been fired by TLC. She has also accused Usman of scamming her.
“To everyone listening here, it is very apparent that I am the victim of romance scam. My husband has used TLC, his family, his friends, people around the world, I’m going to apologize to everyone here.” said Lisa. “I did not know my husband Usman “Sojaboy” was that desperate to become a singer that he would use me and his family and friends.”
“If things continue the way they are going, I have no option but to find my own happiness and let her go find her own happiness. She called me scammer, so I don’t see any reason why you would stay with a scammer, why you stay with a scammer. You have to leave someone and find someone who isn’t a scammer.”
Lisa’s Instagram presence is solid and now, she wants to create a second account. Her main one currently has over 124,000 followers. This new one was just announced as she told fans to join her other page. It currently has over 2,100 followers. The name for this account is @bglthephoenixhasrisen. Lisa didn’t give an explanation for why she added a new Instagram account. This could be to interact with fans much easier due to the fact that the main page has so many notifications coming in.