How would the mainstream react to a public figure, or perhaps even a role model was the recipient of a lap dance at a public party? Putting aside party lines (every politician trying to use any behavior to push his/her own agenda), we might judge the former first lady for partying so publicly in such a manner. But is this approach justified? Instead, shouldn't we embrace sexual expression as part of feminine and human reality? Is there a double standard in what we expect from men versus women?