Not too far off from the iconic “Hollywood Glamour” era actress Elizabeth Taylor, J.Lo just can’t seem to make relationships work. Although she has not officially caught up to the “Queen of Divorces”, J.Lo is on her way. It seems like the idea would pop into most normal folks heads that after three not so easeful divorces it might be time to hang up the stale overused towel. What is it specifically about marriage that attracts the starlet? Is it the desire to be publically validated?
As humans we all have immense character flaws. A lot of us know how to hide these issues very well, and others not so much. With Jennifer Lopez it is clear that somehow she is an absolute love addict. The desire to be loved and maybe even more so be “in love” is a constant in her life. From the moment she stepped onto the scene to now in the present day J. Lo doesn’t look to be content with the idea of being single.
From Ben Affleck to Puffy her extensive relationship history doesn’t really make sense. Her type is something we are all unable to pinpoint and with every single man she has always morphed into whatever he is, like a skilled chameleon. When she was with Ben she took on his aura, and the same goes with Diddy. Her lack of holding a consistent identity can be a reason as to why she latches onto men so quickly. This affliction to love is nothing new to the masses.
What is kind of ironic when it comes to the media dissecting and dismantling Jennifer’s character based on her shaky romances, is the fact that everyone knows a J.Lo. Everybody has someone in their life who can’t stop being swept off their feet, and then dropped on their head. The yin and yang unsteady game is something all people can relate to whether it be them personally or someone close to them. So, should we be less harsh on J.Lo?
A Rod gave Jennifer Lopez a 15 carat diamond while claiming he needs child support reduced.
— Lee Radziwill (@RadziwillLee) March 10, 2019
Yes, and no. Nobody on this beautifully crafted Earth is perfect. But, we can all recognize ways to better ourselves. Change can be good and sometimes it can be forced upon you in the most random of moments. When we see J.Lo and the untangling of her relationships the main controversies arise. Was there a cheating element? Maybe J.Lo was facing some type of emotional neglect? What if Jennifer herself is the problem, the common denominator. Something some fans have recognized is the fact that she has narcissistic tendencies. Now, no one here claims to be a psychologist but common sense is a blessing and with that gift arises the inference that maybe J.Lo just wants a fan. Someone to reinforce what she hears all the time. That she is great, fantastic, and wonderfully talented. But, what kind of give and take union is that.
So Jennifer Lopez insisted on a "no cheating" clause in her prenup with A Rod…. isn't marriage itself a no cheating clause?
— P. (@HighChurchQueen) April 2, 2019